In his first book, Haskell relates stories from his upbringing in Amory, Mississippi, using lessons learned from his mother and his own tenacity to demonstrate how even a small, hopeful kid from Mississippi can climb his way to the top. His remarks, fueled by his earnestness and gift for inspiring, turned the crowd to butter, bringing some to tears and all to recalling their mamas. "I wish she could know how many people's live were being touched by her values," he said, describing the 50+ cities he'd be visiting on his book tour.
In addition to his spiritual message, Haskell also related some entertaining tales from his Hollywood days, including this one, excerpted from his book:
My experiences with three actresses at different times in my career demonstrates how my mother's advice — to give what others need in order to get what you need — works, no matter what the era.
I'd always fantasized about meeting the stars. When I was ten, I shelved books at the Amory Public Library and took every opportunity to read each book, magazine, or newspaper I could find to learn about Hollywood....
Bette Davis, in particular, fascinated me. Somehow, she didn't seem like a typical movie star. She was more handsome than beautiful, and she seemed so grounded. I just loved her. My fascination never faded, even as I grew older. I was dying to meet her someday.
In the spring of 1982, after I'd been an agent for two years, I was responsible for covering every single talk show and variety show on television; if there was a spot into which I could book a William Morris client, it was my job to find it. I got hundreds of William Morris clients on the air, and I was excited to go to the office every day.
I also worked with the producers and packagers we represented, to help them put together their network television projects. Sir David Frost (and his partners) had come up with a two-hour special called The American Movie Awards. We sold it to Brandon Tartikoff at NBC as an alternative to ABC's yearly Academy Awards telecast....
At the first production meeting Sir David announced that producer Hal Wallis would get the first American Movie Awards Lifetime Achievement Award. Wallis had produced so many movies I can't list them all here. But they included Anne of the Thousand Days, Barefoot in the Park, The Man Who Came to Dinner, The Maltese Falcon, and Casablanca.
Mr. Frost said he wanted Bette Davis to present the award. She and Wallis had done several movies together, including Jezebel, for which Miss Davis had won her second Best Actress Oscar, in 1938.
"Who knows Bette Davis?" he asked, explaining that someone had to call and ask if she's appear.
The room, full of producers, writers, and network executives, remained silent.
"All right, does anyone know Marion Rosenberg, Bette Davis' agent?"
I didn't know Marion, but I raised my hand and said, "I'll call her." Mr. Frost said, "Thank you, Sam, but Marion will probably make you call Bette yourself. She's ... tough. Do you think you're up for the job?"
I'd barely replied, "Yes sir," when the older men in the room started telling me horror stories about Bette Davis, suggesting that I should reconsider having volunteered. I didn't care what they thought of her, I was determined to talk to Bette Davis.
Sir David told me to call the next morning and then report back to him.
At 9 a.m. sharp I called Marion Rosenberg. As predicted, she told me I'd have to call Miss Davis directly. She warned me that there would be many questions and that the way I answered those questions would determine the outcome.
When I got through to Miss Davis's assistant, Kathryn Sermak, she put me on hold. It seemed like I waited a half hour, but it was probably only five minutes. While on hold, I prayed that God would help me find the right words. My prayer was interrupted by a voice I knew all too well. "Mr. Haskell, this is Bette Davis.... What exactly would you have me do, and how does this involve Mr. Hal Wallis?"
I explained — it probably sounded like a rehearsed speech, but it came straight from my heart — why we were honoring Hal Wallis, and why she was the best=qualified person ti give him the Lifetime Achievement Award.
"What exactly are The American Movie Awards?" she asked.
I explained the idea behind Sir David's show.
She laughed and said, "David will have his hands full with the Academy over this one!" That led into a fifteen-minute discussion about who I was, my age, where my accent came from, how long I had been an agent, etc. I must have answered all of the questions correctly, because Miss Davis agreed to do the show.
I thanked her. No, I gushed; I admit it. I was about to hang up when she said, "Mr. Haskell, there is one condition. I want you standing on the red carpet when I arrive, you'll walk me into the theater, and stay in the Green Room with me until it's time for me to present Mr. Wallis his award."
She didn't have to ask me twice. To get what she said she wanted — "the company of this funny young agent with the heavy Southern accent, who was both earnest and eager" (I guess I was somehow different from other people who had made business calls to her) — she ultimately gave me what I wanted as well: her presence at the awards ceremony.
Naturally, David Frost was overjoyed, and he told everyone at NBC and William Morris how "the kid called Bette Davis and convinced her to be on the show."....
It was a great moment for me. I'd proven myself to my clients, and somehow made Ms. Davis happy to help me.
A month later I got an invitation to Bette Davis's seventy-fourth birthday party.
The party started at 7 p.m. at Miss Davis's penthouse apartment on Havenhurst Drive in Hollywood. I arrived at 6:45, and I drove around the block until 6:55. Then I parked, rode the elevator up, and rang the doorbell. Miss Davis answered the door herself. "Well, Mr. Haskell," she said, "how perfectly prompt you are."
She asked me in, and then turned to her assistant Kathryn and said, "That will be ten dollars!" Playing off my quizzical look, she explained, "I bet Kathryn ten dollars that YOU would be the first to arrive."
Miss Davis took me on a tour of her beautifully appointed apartment. Everyone else arrived "fashionably late," which meant that I had the hostess all to myself for half an hour. In her living room, Miss Davis showed me a portrait of herself that hung over the mantel. It had been fashioned after her character Margo Channing in the Academy Award-winning film, All About Eve. "Now that's the way I want to be remembered," she said.
She also showed me both of her Oscars, displayed prominently in her den, and we discussed her disappointment at not being cast to play Scarlett O'Hara in Gone with the Wind. I couldn't believe she was telling these things to me. It was incredible.
When Mary and I married the following December, Miss Davis sent us a congratulatory note, and I realized yet again how wrong my father and others had been to think I had thrown my life away by coming to Hollywood. I was so happy — both to be making good impressions and to be befriending the Hollywood stars of my childhood fantasies.